Showing posts with label loneliness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label loneliness. Show all posts

Monday, April 6, 2020

A Prayer for the Unwillingly Isolated

Where can I go from your Spirit? 
     Where can I flee from your presence? 
If I go up to the heavens, you are there; 
     if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. 
If I rise on the wings of the dawn, 
     if I settle on the far side of the sea, 
even there your hand will guide me, 
     your right hand will hold me fast. 
If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me 
     and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you; 
     the night will shine like the day, 
     for darkness is as light to you.
(Psalm 139:7)



O God, since it is true that there is nowhere
that you are not;
and since it is true that no darkness 
can hide any of us from you;
and since it is true that wherever we are,
there you are also – 

Today I pray for those whom the pandemic
has closed off from companionship:
  for patients in hospitals, 
          where no visitors are allowed
  for residents of nursing facilities, 
          where no visitors are allowed
  for people in self-quarantine, 
          where no visitors are allowed
  for the incarcerated, 
          where no visitors are allowed
  for those sick with other conditions, 
          and visitors are not allowed.

It must be a living hell of loneliness, O God,
for those who are not allowed visitors, companionship.
They have no one to tell them it will be okay.
They have no one to hold their hand.
They have no one to comfort them.

So today I pray for those whom the pandemic
has closed off from companionship.

You can visit them, O Lord.
You can fill them with your presence,
  and let them know that they are not alone.
You can calm their fears 
  by giving them your peace.
You can assure them that you will heal them.
You can whisper into their spirit,
"Never will I leave you nor forsake you."

Will you do that, Lord?
Will you assure them that they are not alone?
Will you comfort them?
Will you heal them?

Will you say to them, 
"Peace I give to you. My peace I give to you;
not as the world gives do I give unto you.
Let not your heart be troubled;
neither let it be afraid"?

Will you please let them know how much you love them,
and that there is nothing in all this world
that can take your love away from them?

Will you do that, Lord?
Please?
Will you visit those whom the pandemic
has closed off from companionship?

I know you will, because that’s 
the kind of God you are.
You do care.
And you are able.
And you are present.
Always.

Today I pray for those whom the pandemic
has closed off from companionship.
Amen.



During the season of Lent I am “Praying with David,” using prayers from the psalms as inspiration for personal prayers.

Monday, March 23, 2020

Through the Valley

Yea, though I walk through the valley 
          of the shadow of death,
     I will fear no evil;
for thou art with me;
     thy rod, and thy staff – 
     they comfort me.
(Psalm 23:4, KJV)





Today, O Lord, I pray for those who are
walking through the valley of the shadow of death.

This plague has forced separation upon us.
This pandemic has closed us off from the world 
and from each other.

When loved ones die, O God,
who can come alongside those who grieve?

When loved ones are alone 
  in nursing homes 
  and hospitals 
  and therapy centers,
who can come alongside them 
in their suffering?

Today, O Lord, I pray for those who are
walking through the valley of the shadow of death,
for those who are in the darkness
of the sorrowful mingling of grief and loneliness.

For we can only be a vocal presence at best,
calling them, trying to comfort them.
And that’s something. Something good, even.
But they need more.
They deserve more.

Have mercy, O Lord.
Pour out your compassion and love upon them.
For you are with them
as they walk through the valley of the shadow of death;
you are with them
in the darkness of lonely grief.

Comfort them, I pray.
Fill them with your peace.
Heal the wounds in their hearts 
with the balm of your steadfast love.

Let them know 
that the Good Shepherd is watching over them,
calling them by name,
seeking those lost in grief,
gathering them in his bosom,
and gently carrying them through the darkness.

Today, O Lord, I pray for those who are
walking through the valley of the shadow of death.
Amen.



During the season of Lent, I am “Praying with David,” using prayers from the psalms as inspiration for personal prayers.